The L Word...

Some may have heard it but it's the new hit tv series in the US right now and already ended season 3. I came across the show when i was looking up summaries to my tv shows (the one's i missed)..and there it was.. The L Word. The title was catchy do, i went to the website and gosh..a tv show for Lesbians...hurray to them!!

When i told my brother apparently he knew about the show... so, i downloaded a few episodes and watched it with the utmost interest. Nothing is censored...well i got to see many sizes of breast (looking down at mine...hmmm not a bad size...I shouldn't be ashamed at all...hee hee).

There was one issue in that was brought up which was a child being raised by Lesbian Parents. Is it unethical? To me, i totally disagree that parents of the same gender be allowed to adopt a child and try to raise it as a normal child. I mean, there will be possibilities that the child will turn out like the parents because children idolise their parents right! Not to say that children with normal parents should turn out normal.. I guess it's their biological body and their influences that make a child turn out the way they are. I can't even say if I'm normal...hmmm

In a Society like Malaysia, this topic is never discussed in public and those that are gay choose to hide their secret as they are afraid they are never accepted by society. Once society accepts, then there will be a way to legalise the idea...(religion vs 'this new idea = a big disaster!)

What i would like to know is..are we truly sincere when we say we accept people for who they are and not discriminate them behind their back? As a friend, some of us may say that they accept if the friend is not straight. But look into the future and ponder...what if my child is gay..can i live with the fact?? hmmm....

How can you tell if you're in Love?

At one point, we're all asking this to ourselves 'Do I love her/him?'..How can we be sure that the feeling is love and not just a crazy crush? I was given the idea that when you're in love you're:

1) Happy all the time (can't dispute that...)
2) You gain weight way too easily (A++ to that!!)
3) A sense that somethings not in place when the person's not nearby. (YEAP)..i miss you!
4) Wanting to be together all the time (yeahhhhhh...)
5) Want to hear their voice 1st thing you wake up and the last voice before we sleep (So True!)
6) Craving for sweet stuff? (ahh, thats just my sweet tooth cravings...hee hee)

Well, if you answered atleast YES to three..then you are in the boat!

All the above are the author's opinion on what love is...

Should you keep in touch with your Ex..??

Hmm, when i had my 1st boyfriend of course i didnt have this problem. I always kept in touch with my ex's (not all of them...choose to ban a few!!..TOTAL LOATHING ALERT!).

So, the question is should you keep intouch with your ex's? Each time I have a new boyfriend they tell me not to keep in touch or even see my ex's. But when they become the ex and later i am in another relationship they ask to see me..so they don't even take in their own advice huh!! MEN!

A recent discussion with a male counterpart speculates that when an ex suddenly knocks on your door again we female's usually think that it's just to meet up for a friendly chat or a usual updating session on our lives, but is it really? Are there no ulterior motive to this? Lets say they ask you out for a cuppa java, or out for breakfast, or lunch, or dinner or out for a movie....should we be allowed to accept the offer or gently decline?

I guess it may be okay to keep in touch to a very minimum level. How minimum depends entirely on YOU and how your other half is comfortable with. I came to a recent revelation..actually i knew this long long ago but choose to ignore it due to..well, i guess i wanted to be ignorant.. Now, if you don't want your partner do to you, don't do it to your partner..make sense?

Yeap..it sure as hell makes sense to me nowadays!!