Should you keep in touch with your Ex..??

Hmm, when i had my 1st boyfriend of course i didnt have this problem. I always kept in touch with my ex's (not all of them...choose to ban a few!!..TOTAL LOATHING ALERT!).

So, the question is should you keep intouch with your ex's? Each time I have a new boyfriend they tell me not to keep in touch or even see my ex's. But when they become the ex and later i am in another relationship they ask to see me..so they don't even take in their own advice huh!! MEN!

A recent discussion with a male counterpart speculates that when an ex suddenly knocks on your door again we female's usually think that it's just to meet up for a friendly chat or a usual updating session on our lives, but is it really? Are there no ulterior motive to this? Lets say they ask you out for a cuppa java, or out for breakfast, or lunch, or dinner or out for a movie....should we be allowed to accept the offer or gently decline?

I guess it may be okay to keep in touch to a very minimum level. How minimum depends entirely on YOU and how your other half is comfortable with. I came to a recent revelation..actually i knew this long long ago but choose to ignore it due to..well, i guess i wanted to be ignorant.. Now, if you don't want your partner do to you, don't do it to your partner..make sense?

Yeap..it sure as hell makes sense to me nowadays!!