Be with the one you love OR Be with the one that love u
Hmm...this what my mother highlighted to me about love and life sometime ago when i was rather LOST!
Mama: Liz, stop feeling miserable about yourself..things happen for a reason
Liz: Mama, i'll stop feeling like this when i choose to!
Mama: Its not healthy being this way, you do have your friends!
Liz: Yeah, but all of my girlfriends are either on dates, engaged or married..so they have no time for lil pathetic me... (sulking with tears)
Mama: Someone will come to you, you'll have to be patient.... (bla bla bla...mom talking as i was so absorbed in myself)
Liz: Mama, I know what i'm doing, and i'm going to handle this my way ok... right now i feel like being left alone...
Mama: Liz, we all love you and we dont like to see you like this!
Liz: Yeah, but GOD is enjoying every bit of it...tormenting me like this! (Being angry at god gets you nowhere, trust me on this!)
Mama: You cant blame GOD for what happened to you..its all the path of life.
Liz: Yeah, HE could have changed it..but noooo....HE chose to just watch and see me bitter!!
Mama: GOD is teaching you something, he wants you to be a better person.. pray and be patient.
Liz: I know, i regret everything, but then it doesnt seem to be getting better is it?
Mama: You cant expect things to change just like that...time is what it takes..
Liz: All i want is someone for me..i'm not asking for much..GOD is that so hard?
Mama: Why dont you love someone that loves you...you can train yourself to love the person because loving someone who does not love you will get you nowhere....(This is the bit!)
Liz: (A Golf ball suddenly hit me on the head...OUCH...Reality bites)... Hmmm...
Mama: (was smiling with utter concern over her daughters frantic case of excessive negative behaviour....i was constantly crying, cooping up in my room, not eating as much...hating friends!)
Liz: Ok, mama... i still think that GOD is having fun with all of this!
Mama: Suit urself.. if ur bored and you need to feel happy...join us or call up aidil!
Liz: Ok mama... going to sleep (at 3pm...slept like a log i did!)
NOTE: Mom's knows best no matter how angry at GOD we may be at most times!

1 Comments:
Liz,
Allah, almighty God, will only put a test on His servants if He knows that the servant can handle it. Whatever "test" He has put you on ..... be patient and take it in stride.
My dad once told me that I cannot force a man to love me. And life experiences have taught me that it is better to be with a man who loves me MORE than I do him. A woman's love will be built on the man's love.
Your mom is right :)
Hope you find happiness in time to come.
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